‘Indian mother in laws can never be happy!’ Well, this statement is just a myth. We know how Bollywood and daily soap operas portray mother in laws in a very bad light but all you need is a little patience and lots of respect to make your mom in law super impressed!
To make the task easier for you, we have 5 fool proof ways that will make your mother in law love you forever!
1. Treat Her As Your Own Mother
If you treat her just as your husband’s mother, the void can never be bridged. Love her like you love your own mother and we bet there would be nothing to stop her from loving you back.
2. Communication is Key
Your husband might have told you a lot about her already but it is also very important for the two of you to communicate as much as possible. Remember how you use to pamper your mom after a fight and then chit chat with her for hours altogether? Do the same thing with your mother in law to make her feel loved and incorporate a personal relationship.
3. Seek Her Advice
If you could not decide what dress to buy without the help of your own mother, why not seek advice from your mother in law after marriage? Be it a problem at work, a recipe you’re stuck with or shopping, make her feel important by knowing what she has in her mind.
4. Be Attentive
Especially in the first year of marriage, you need to be very attentive in order to know your mother in law’s likes and dislikes. This will avoid future tiffs and ensure a harmonious relationship.
5. Surprise Her
Who doesn’t like surprises! Be it on her birthday or anniversary, plan a sweet little surprise involving all other family members. Use this time to bond with the family and create some beautiful memories.
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