As much as everybody emphasizes on marriage being a bond that unites two souls who are deeply madly in love with each other, the land of culture, tradition and diversity, India has given a different dimension to this institution. Even though most parts of the world are aloof of the term ‘arranged marriage,’ in India, it is a common practice.
In your case too, if Sharma uncle has found that suitable match and your entire family thinks that you make a splendid couple, here are reasons why you shouldn’t run away from this situation because these arguments will convince you to believe that opting for an arranged marriage isn't that bad an idea!
1. The Post-Wedding Charm Is Restored
If your parents have arranged this wedding, it is natural that you do not know your partner in and out. There is still a lot of scope to become familiar with each other’s likes and dislikes and that reduces the chances of boredom to penetrate in your marriage.
2. It Is A Family Celebration
When two families meet, bond and celebrate, happiness knows no bounds. Neither is there any resentment nor any pressure. Your parents are overjoyed, friends and relatives satisfied and you as a couple feel secure to undertake the responsibilities of married life.
3. Your Past Calls For Zero Judgment
You might have had an unpleasant past but your partner is completely unaware of it and that fact reduces the scope of any judgment. It’s time to start afresh and there is no harm in concealing a few things that you consider keeping private.
4. The Level Of Commitment Is Higher
Since families play a major role in an arranged marriage, the level of responsibility that you possess towards your partner’s happiness naturally shoots up. This in-turn ensures loyalty and it goes without saying that loyalty can make any relationship much stronger.
5. You Tend To Find Hidden Hobbies
There are chances that your partner is a travel buff and makes you explore picturesque destinations across the globe. He/she could also be a foodie or a book lover. These hobbies possessed by your partner help you introspect and know yourself better at the same time adding to your personality and knowledge.
So, if your heart has said a yes, go ahead and say ‘I do.’
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