She is the one you have shared everything with apart from your toothbrush. She has been your partner in crime, your teacher, counselor and your constant source of happiness. She is someone you can call anytime in the night to tell the silliest of things and she would still entertain you. Yes, that’s what BFF’s (best friends forever) are for!
But what when she finds her prince charming? What when she has to share her love? What when your BFF finally plans to get married? Well, there will be a pool of thoughts and emotions that you are bound to go through and we have listed them for you, just so you are prepared!
1. Yayyyy! It’s party time!
Her wedding is going to be a week of endless fun. I’m going to dress up, drink, dance and do whatever that I want! After all, it’s my bestie who’s getting hitched.
2. I can’t ping her in the middle of the night anymore
Even though her husband is a sweetheart and won’t mind if we indulge in long late night conversations but I have to realize that she is now married. She needs to devote time to her married life and even if a random guy dint reply to my message for four hours, I can’t call her and crib about it anymore!
3. Hanging out without her? Really?
She was the only one who would go to the mall with me in her pj’s or watch a stupid romantic movie just to give me company. But now, I will have to do all of that alone! Hanging out anywhere without her won’t be the same, it would rather be pathetic!
4. Let’s Go On A Shopping Spree!
There’s the mehendi, haldi, sangeet, wedding, reception and for these five functions I at least need 25 dresses, 10 bags and a box full of jewellery! Oh, and we also need to shop for her bridal outfit!
5. I’m finally going to be a bridesmaid
From shopping with her to walking her down the aisle to making her eat and drink, it would all be my responsibility. Honestly, I have a feeling of pride being my BFF’s bridesmaid!
6. Endless Pictures
One thing that I am sure of, I require a personal cameraman. From my Whatsapp display picture to my Facebook cover and profile image, everything has to be of her wedding, I am going to flood my followers’ Instagram feed and all that can only be possible if I have a never ending collection of pictures.
7. How Am I Going To Control My Tears On Stage?
When it’s time to say something for a woman, who has been by my side through literally ‘everything,’ how am I supposed to not cry? But crying in front of 500 guests would be embarrassing so I’ll just tell them that these are ‘khushi ke aansoon.’
8. I am going to miss her so so much
Could I just hold on to her and never let her go? Could there be one way to freeze those memories from our night stays, pajama parties, drunken nights, vacations and every other lovely moment that we have spent together? Could I master that puppy face that makes her take me along because I know she wants to!
Cheers to your best friend, now the to-be bride. Stay by her side and tell her that you’re there always!
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